Stop trying to figure everything out on your own; ask for help in the beginning and simplify your process. This message is mainly for me but if you’re like me, you treat every challenge like it’s a puzzle you need to crack. I know puzzles can be fun but so is the easy route; find it and take it and know that it doesn’t make you weak. The amount of time you’ll spend figuring it out could be used for something else if you had just asked someone who knows more for guidance.
And that imposter syndrome you might be feeling is only from you; nobody else is thinking of you, honey. They've got their own issues to worry about, trust me. So, go ahead and ask people for help; there’s nothing wrong with that. Like I said in the beginning, this message is mainly for me but if you’re like me then it’s yours too. We need to see what life is like on the chiller side. Hakuna Matata, baby!